Sexual Training by Experienced Older Teachers

This blog is an open letter to my gay sexual training learned from teacher Robbie Orenstein.  Men are not born gay. Gay is learned behaviour.  Older men teach younger men how to be gay. Older men must be kind and gentle with their younger lovers. If an older man is trying to manipulate your feelings that is wrong. Robbie Orenstein tried to lay a guilt trip on me that there was something wrong with my lovemaking. Robbie was cramming his tongue down my throat and I hate that. I told him over and over again. It took me a long time to stand up to older men who cram their tongue down your throat.  When I finally met super good kissers like Jackhammer Johnny Quinlan I started to get my sex life together.  Dr. Allen is also a terrible kisser but I promote him anyway.

One night after Robbie was telling me how hot a New York lover he was I went over to Enrique’s in Fillmore. I prefer the way Latin and African men make love to me. They take charge. Enrique stroked my thighs and made me think about what a half-ass lover Robbie was. When your lover is not doing what you want them to do, don’t use words to correct him, use action.  In other words if you are a rich older gay man who has a younger sexy boy in bed, you must show and not tell. If you have set the play for sixty-nine and your boy is not doing anything while you are fellating him, then push his head down onto you.  Just grab the back of his neck and push him down.

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